Guidelines for Parents
Schooling is an activity of today
&
Assurance for tomorrow
We are sure now that you might have definitely understood the Importance of choosing the right school and getting admission your ward into it.
Before we proceed further it is very important to update that if your child is not selected to a particular school you should never consider him/ her a failure. This is just matter of chance .
Need : The Need Is that your Child must get admission in the school, a good school. the school must provide all the facilities and guidance to make your child an able grown up.
Desire: The desire is that your child should be in ''that school''.
Just read this :
A three year old child walked how many fingers do you have ? The child replied eight. Again the teacher asked my dear child how many fingers do you have ? The child again replied eight. Now the teacher said but son we have ten fingers. At this the child replied have eight fingers and two thumbs.
Other school, another child. The teacher smilingly asked the child to sing Jan Man . The child Looked around, stood up and said: every body here, please stand up.
Both got the admission immediately. No more questions asked. This happens, but very rare. few show such intelligence. If You expect your child to give such replies, logically you are expecting a lot. Let your child enjoy the name of school. Don't make him/her frightened by the name of school or by the name of interview. Rather make him/her to take this as a play. Relax and see how easily your child gets admission in "that school''.
First Prepare yourself and than prepare your child for the interview School interview is consisted of 80% parent's performance and 20% child's performance. Because whatever the child performes reflects the parents personality.
Do's: The Preparation should be ongoing and effortless. This is more of learning by showing.
- Make at least three to four choices. (Target at least four schools).
- Choose the school after calculating your paying capacity today and for another 12 years.
- Practice polite and well-mannered behaviour at home .
- Cooprate with each other.
- When you are speaking to your child or any other person-if your child is around-spak slowly,clearly & softly.
- Practice saying daily manners with your child every day, every
- Hold your child closely and explain him/her whatever he/she askseveryday atleast for one hour.
- Both mother and father to participate in all the activities at home.
- Pay respect to everyone.
- Let the child play with other kids on his/her own.
- Allow the child to talk to your friends in your absence.
Dont's
- For yourself don't make ego issues about particular school .
- Never create hype about interview .
- Never frighten him /her by saying we will send you to school or let me talk to your teacher.
- Never ask questions to your child when people are around.
- Never tell your child anything in one sequence every time. Otherwise the child will get confused if the sequence is changed .
- Don't drink, smoke or use abusive language in front of the child.
- Never make funny faces or odd body gestures. The child will pick them fast and reflect them while at interview.
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